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Hi, my name is Brendan Lyons, and I have spent most of my adult life a bachelor. I’ve seen and done a lot of wild things and been in almost every awkward situation imaginable. People always approach me as if I were a bartender or a barber with questions about life and love, and I have always been successful in giving them advice. I may not pour drinks or have any idea how to cut hair, but what I do know is how to be a bachelor. The world has reached out to me, and I am here to answer their call.
Hi, I’m Carlo. I’m covering for Brendan this week…
I often find that many single guys I know are pretty bad at entertaining women. This is why they are doomed to loneliness. Far too often, a buddy will come to me, looking to recap “what he did wrong” during his first date, and I always end up telling them that they did everything wrong.
First, we need to understand how the first date works. The first date is totally unique when compared to all others. It is merely a test given by both sides to see if you can spend a small amount of time with someone and actually have fun. The date NEEDS to be light and active. None of this heavy convo stuff, just some laughs, a few smiles and actually having some stuff to do.
Have something planned
Chicks DO NOT want to sit in your crappy car while you both figure out what you are in the mood to do. You might think “I don’t want to impose on her, I’ll just see what she wants to do.” WRONG. She doesn’t care about what you two do, she just wants to see if she likes you or not. My standard first date is planned as follows: Activity, Light Eats, Coffee, Home.
Activity:
This can be anything where you are not passively engaged. That means no movies, theatre, TV, concerts, or anything else where you are “watching” something. You two need to hang out, not sit in the same room. I suggest Mini-Golf, Bowling, Pool, or Ice Skating. The activity should last no more than an hour and a half. (BUT: be sure to make sure she’s happy. If she looks bored, get out of there and go grab a bite. Also, don’t ask her if she’s having fun, just read her body language, idiot.)
Note: This has a double purpose. Aside from actually doing something, it’s a great place to build that physical tension. Blood Pumping status on the real.
Light Eats:
Okay, this gets hairy. You don’t want to take her to a five-star restaurant for a six course meal, but you also don’t want to hit up Wendy’s Value Menu. Find a nice café, or food place that does appetizers. DON’T order a steak, just get some finger foods. You’ll share them and chat during the meal. Forks and knifes = conversation killer, as you will be focused on eating, and she will be self-concious about looking fat in front of you. Applebee’s (or any other chain place) is not really much better than Wendy’s, so you may have to do some research. DON’T Get coffee/dessert here. ALSO: DO NOT GET DRUNK. (Actually, limit yourself to TWO drinks MAX.)
Coffee:
This is where stuff get’s fun. If the date has been going well so far, you can seriously just say “Let’s grab a coffee real quick. You don’t mind Dunkin Donuts/Starbucks/WaWa right?” Seriously. You just left an intimate setting, why make another? Get out there and be a little public. It’s also a good chance to “play couple” and have some fun. (If the date goes a bit wonky, well you may need to isolate the date to a quieter/darker place. If it’s
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